now in my clique everyone getting a stead.. is a stead dat important? i mean like stead harlow.. what can they do.. its like.. love is important but does it mean that if you see people have stead then it kind of is telling you to find one too? its like people have one so you should have one too.. that is such a stupid thinking.

well it is happy to see that your friends have found a stead, someone to share happiness joy n laughter and of course those sad days when you needs someone to pull you up on your feet again but sometimes it really seems that some people are getting a stead for the sake of it not because they like the person or something.

in the end it hurts other people including yourself at the end of this relationship. people should think twice before going into a relationship and think about can the person care for you or can you care for the person. Do you have time for this relationship?

some people might say this is just a relationship do you have to think so much? Only stupid people think so much. you like the person the person like you the feeling is mutual so just stead. have you ever thought if you do not like the person, you stead with him or her just because you want a stead. it really hurts him or her when they find out actually you are just kind of toying with their feelings.