Consoling dun work

When ur fren is sad..U console them..Of coz..But sometimes no matter what u say the person still seem sad..From that time..U will think that u r so useless coz u can't even console ur fren..But den suddenly u think that the person needs to be alone and think by him or herself..But many times..Have u ever wondered if the person reali wan to be alone?Sometimes we feel reali touched about how ur frens console u how they are so concerned about u..But maybe what u want is attention..More care from the..Becoz u feel unsecure..Many times we get the wrong signal..So we shld always put ourselves in tt person's shoes and think how u will feel if u r him or her den u juz decide wat to do..