Tuesday, October 07, 2008

I just realised how fragile humans are . We die not of physical pain but of emotional pain . But how strong can we be when one snide remark can hurt us deeply ? Then won't none of us survive in this world ? We wish to be kind and also hope to be treated the same way . 

Most of the time we try our best to express ourselves and at the same time be in other people's position so that we won't hurt them with our words . Somehow it just doesn't work that way yeah ? We human are not that sensative after all . Therefore we can't feel the love that everyone is expressing . 

In the end we feel lonely and start to isolate ourselves away from everyone around . The way I describe this makes everything seem so easy . As if its THAT easy . How easy can it be to visualize things from other people's views ? How easy can it be to take into account other people's feelings while we take responsibilty for our own behavior and actions ?

We humans aren't perfect beings and in fact we have tons of flaws . Its the same with everyone . Nobody is perfect although everyone is working hard towards that almost unreachable goal . However , some people commented that they hate themselves and can't accept whatever they do . But when you look at it , and think about it . Actually they have already accepted themselves but its just that they have no idea about it . 

The difficult thing about life is not accepting oneself but instead, accept other people throughly and not just on the surface . You can perhaps show and make people believe that you accept them and acknowledge their existence . But deep in your heart , you can't deceieve yourself . And sometimes you can't keep up with what you think, in the end you hurt not only the other party but also placed yourself in a difficult situation .

To appreciate others, for whatever they do and how they respond to things is a great deal . Just how many can do that ? Mere number perhaps . But if we try hard enough perhaps we really can make a difference . Its not that difficult to feel for others right when we are all the same deep inside . We yearn to be loved and respected and others too . Its the same principle actually .

Just how tough is it to accept others ? Just how difficult it is to appreciate people around you for what they do and how they think ? Sometimes it just lies within us waiting for us to discover and understand it ..

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